Monday, February 1, 2010

Spanking Experiences F/m How Upsetting Is It For A Child To Witness A Severe Spanking?

How upsetting is it for a child to witness a severe spanking? - spanking experiences f/m

Some people say they get laughed at the sight of siblings, or colleagues to be laughed at myself in the painful (or, if he does not think bad luck), but some children, it is strange that all this comes true. Does the child have the capacity for empathy are different in this regard? There have been cases where severe blows produced a second hand "traumatic experience been?

13 comments:

Momto2in... said...

My sister and I have learned as children. I do not think that we are each other laugh when it happened. But we have won.

I think of you as a severe beating?

But we have never been traumatized by it. Not the least ...

geo metrosexual said...

I am sure it is permanent, as in how they develop both socially and sexually. I saw my two companions as they were beaten down and the experience of being "pants" flogging in public places at the sight of one who was there, strange family, friends. After receiving a spanking at school paddle "in the folded state to the other students, most of the big eyes and smile when you apply this intense burning of an adult, I am not angry .. cruel, for this - My children have never been stuck. I have an extra large fetish with beatings, humiliation [is lost], and a little weird to do "clothes in the" preference during sex ... sex? time.

Buronax said...

When the brothers are very close, it can be a significant amount of empathy. If a brother is very nervous, because he also the source that causes the disease required, can be blamed fake empathy. In the long run is not great, unless they are constantly fighting the kiss of death. The advantage of a strong reaction is that they are less likely to commit the same mistakes. If it bothers you, ask them to leave or if they are not around.

Cherub said...

My sister and I teach. I was always afraid of my father, who taught us and I hate him. I do not agree with him today to speak for all the time that we teach children. Only in the back or legs, but not me traumatized. I remember my sister and I knew in hatred of my father, it was my turn. We have also learned that when someone does something that we do not allow such blows us into the sort of difficulties in the school. We both recognized that this is wrong, and choose a different discipline our own children. Our children have fewer problems than we do and do not hate us, as we have our father. We talked to our mother not to spank.

darling nicky said...

Here's the deal. Scenes of violence in film, television and even video games to understand children and is wrong to have a meaning that is not real, or is not correct. But seen in combination with repeated instances of live acts to be harmful if spanking, domestic violence or torture, abandonment of animals that may be fertile ground for a future in the psychological trauma. Read a book written by mass murderers, or read any research done on this subject and you can come to this conclusion. truly regrettable.

Krystal said...

I think he can carry a child to be feared. A child may fear that, knowing that they might harm. a different perspective on life is possible. I personally think that if a child hears the cries of another child who is not pleased, because I do not want to hurt me. You can also prevent them from doing different things, because I know how parents will react. the child can not say very flinchy May and what the parents.

beckychr... said...

I do not think that many kids find fun. My mother usually tape in the camera (unless you have had trouble all). But I remember my sister to get it. Although it has been in place, I heard the SWAT of brush and my sister crying. I had a knot in my stomach from the moment knew he was beaten up and do not leave until my mother came.

Once, a neighbor and friend, I was playing at home, and cook for his mother. He asked with a bicycle to the neighborhood supermarket and buy something. We ate bread for a few minutes on the playground down the street.

Anyway, when we got home, his mother was not happy. But she said nothing, but took a wooden spoon to a hook on the wall. My friend seems to know the routine, and there in the kitchen, pulled his pants and bent. Her mother did not matter to me that I was there, but methodically destroyed his daughter's bare buttocks. The only sound is the smell of the spoon and my friend tried to sniff back tears.

Stopped when her mother, "said the next time will be better than with the Clock"

It is very worrying - especially how it was done.

lovely said...

A person may not at the sight of a child receiving a blow to cause laughter is not a funny question. This could result in a traumatic experience when they grow up, you can not predict the future. Or that your child feel like in the future. But personally, I do not think it is fair that a father does not stick there for children, there are many other possibilities to deal with them when they misbehave.

~ Venus ~ said...

Cherub - I know what you mean, I've experienced something similar.
My father made me very, when I was younger and my brother (although it is more like 13). My brother is very violent, and if someone does something you do not like, Hits it Out. Not even me, because he thinks he's right. I know this next bit is not violent, but my mother has made racist comments in a heap before him, and collects and repeatedly - in some sense the error of my parents had taught him.

la said...

Well, I saw a program last year on American religious families who beat their children and discipline, was so traumatized, my son asked me for 2 weeks, if j I saw a woman as the mother in the program on the street (this woman was fat and wore glasses), "will punish me?"
keped i say that the woman was gone and I do not hit, but he still speaks to school, said all her friends in the class that a woman is really touched children.because n 'Loved it and it was a bad mother .
May God bless you, I've never contradict hard, I think I understand your position, how to love and still in mourning, because you hurt?
5 years old at the time

Jenna-Leigh :D mommy of 2. said...

my parents for giving us a spanking with a belt
and belts, etc.. tramatize and we are not really
all. Freak parents say that spanking is child's play
Abuse when most of the time we have worked and
She stopped acting like children, and it made us laugh
to each other when we spanked.Sometimes
we laughed when we were booking spanking.

And frankly, it dosent even leave damage bad.It
Mark, but only hurts for a second.spanking is not the devil
It is not hitting.

Jenna-Leigh :D mommy of 2. said...

my parents for giving us a spanking with a belt
and belts, etc.. tramatize and we are not really
all. Freak parents say that spanking is child's play
Abuse when most of the time we have worked and
She stopped acting like children, and it made us laugh
to each other when we spanked.Sometimes
we laughed when we were booking spanking.

And frankly, it dosent even leave damage bad.It
Mark, but only hurts for a second.spanking is not the devil
It is not hitting.

Dimetre said...

When I once saw a beating and had the courage to laugh and make fun of who is better than I do even worse than I do. We have not learned to those who laugh punished for their sins. I do not think that we have suffered or know someone who has experienced a dramatic spanking.

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